I hope all is well and that you are growing in your relationships with Jesus! So I’m gonna talk about a subject we all just love to dream about. I can’t wait to share my thoughts with you and be able to share with you what I have learned from Gods word to you! First I’m just going to share that right now I am reading “The Chase” by Kyle and Kelsey Kupecky and it is absolutely amazing. I have learned so much from it that I am also going to be sharing with you.
Future Husband where you at?
As a little girl I started praying for my future husband thanks to my mother. I would’ve never thought of it because I had just never seriously focused on praying for him. By the way movies are these days and Disney fairy tales are I just thought oh one day I’l l run into him and he will be perfect, we will instantly be in love, get married and live happily ever after. Well, it does not work like that. With that said the first thing I want to ask you is, have you prayed for your future husband? Prayed about what he would be like? And does the man you are with right now have those characteristics? And if you are single always look for the godly man you have prayed for!
What did you pray for your future husband to be like?
Mark 11:24 ” Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it and it will be yours.” (NIV Version)
Psalm 37:4-5 ” Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him and He will act.” (ESV Version)
Matthew 6:33 “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” (ESV Version)
If you are living the “kingdom lifestyle” (living your life for Jesus) then if you pray and believe in it- you will receive your hearts desires (That are whats best for you because God wants the absolute best of best for us). God isn’t trying to give you a lukewarm future husband and you to be on fire for God. Vice versa for guys. Don’t settle. Don’t settle for just love. The one God has for you is beyond your sweetest dreams. Don’t live by your feelings. You can love whoever you want, but don’t settle yourself for a worldly love. You were made for a kingdom lifestyle. You were made to be a Woman of God and for a godly love. Make sure your relationship isn’t dragging you away from your relationship with Jesus. Always put Jesus first! And everything will fall into place.
Don’t let the thought of marriage consume you! Do not let it become a idol! Focus on your one on one time with God. Remember that our God is a jealous God and He wants us to have Him first in our lives. So why in the world would He bless us with our partner when we can’t even have Him first in our lives when we are single or when we have our little temporary flings. Ladies, stop trying to make it happen! Stop trying to make that guy you been eyeing living that worldly life your future husband. I’m sure with you just looking at him you already have your kids names and family vacations picked out. Am I right sister? Lol. We must be ready to be the godly wife we were called to be. The godly woman. We can’t be partying on the weekends and celebrating Jesus on that Sunday. And then you’re saying, “Oh girl.. All these guys out here are dirt bags. Why do they all want sex from me? And he don’t wanna go to church with me\when he goes to church with me he doesn’t even interact.”
Well, baby girl. Let me tell you something out of love. You attract what you throw out there! If you are posting your #ottd (outfit of the day) pictures on social media and you’re looking all good and then oops ya see a little bit of what ya mama gave ya here and there… Well girl. Your saying you want that Godly man, but you’re attracting the wrong crowd. Now for those reading this about to say, “She is so judgmental. She doesn’t know what she’s talking about. She’s in the wrong. Only God can judge me. Me posting that isn’t going to affect me finding my Man.”
First Jesus says, “Do not judge by appearances, but judge with right judgment.” (John 7:24) I am not going to judge you by the way you look because some women do have a hard time keeping things covered. But for the ones that know what they are doing by trying to be “seductive”, that is exactly what I am talking about. Girl know you are so much more than that!! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! You are beautiful without the seducing poses. You are marvelously made by the creator of the universe!! Stop trying to grab the attention of these worldly men and women! Be the woman God has called you to be!!! And woooooo this just came on me like wildfire. I don’t know who this is for, but I am praying God grabs you to read this. Ms. Lady, someone else’s husband IS NOT YOUR MAN. God isn’t going to send you a marry man, ladies. Respect the marriages. Respect the boys and girls dating. Don’t be all over their man even if he ain’t got the ring on it.
Focus on becoming the godly woman God created you to be!! Trust and know that God knows your future and it is in His will. Become the woman GOD HE MADE YOU TO BE!!! Gods faithfulness will never let you down! He isn’t finished with you! Enjoy this single season!! Do not let it be wasted. This December throughout 2018 is a season of spiritual growth and for the women and men of God to rise up in their callings!
Remember to pray for yourself! Remember to pray for your future husband!
BE YOU, YOU BEAUTIFUL STRONG WOMAN.
I am praying for you guys. Please feel free to reach out to me! I am not perfect. I struggle. But the struggle is real, but MY LORD IS BEYOND REAL. He died for me and for you and for every single person. John 3:16. Love y’all so much.
With lots of love,